Wednesday, 2 June 2010

How do you say sorry?

I really hate upsetting the people I care most about, but I manage to majorly upset one of my best friends yesterday all because of a missing line in the conversation. I was asking about her pet dog, and she told my that the dog was being stupid, then said not to ask. Jokingly, in my usual fashion, I asked "Why?" and this angered her. I apologized then proceeded to ask her why she was annoyed. Bad idea because this angered her even more. It turns out she didn't want me to ask why she was annoyed.

I honestly don't know what to do. I went silent on her because I didn't want to make her even more angry with me, but she was blah about it, thinking I was gone. I did, however, leave after a couple of hours of not talking to go and get some sleep. Since then, I haven't logged onto Yahoo! because I really don't know what to say to her. I totally pissed her off yesterday. In-fact, her Twitter status not too long after I angered her was "Why the hell do I attract psychos? Someone please tell me".

Am I one of those psychos? I love her, which is why I'm curious about it. If I am, then I guess I should just be friends, and never try to be anything more. God, that will be hard. Is it possible to do that with someone you'd really like to be with?

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